Is communication key in a relationship?

Well, you can't put love and important life events on a time schedule, so I guess its up to you to do some introspective thinking about your future with her. I guess the quick answer to your question is no. No it doesn't sound like you're ready to get married. Note I didn't say she's not the lady for you, just that you sound like you're panicking and as a result finding things wrong with her ;) So maybe its not the right time yet for you. As for whether she's the right woman, well, I can't answer that for you, but you can. Does she make you happy and feel whole and complete? Can you imagine a future with her? Are you happy in that future you're imagining? I'll check back later to see if you type more... I'm not sure if you are done or adding more or not